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2023.06.01 13:46 Specialist-Fox9531 So we met on a game
So we met on a Mmo game… (we gonna call him T)but we eventually started playing more and talking more in game. Than eventually gave each others Kik accounts and I started to become his best friend. We became best friends. We were ever since I was 12 years old now I am 20 about to hit 21.. We had many moments as we flirted and complimented each other and eventually started admitting our feelings to each other when I was about 19 years old. I had to admit it first in order for him to come out and say it. I met him in real life. We were flirting and talking about our futures together the whole time before I met him in real life and we were really close friends. He was my childhood bestfriend. Even if we are not talking right now I admit he was the best thing and to be honest , my first love. We spoke before we met and admitted each others feelings towards each other. We started talking about how we gonna have kids and how crazy and funny they’ll be. Than it got sexual. It went all over the place. We spoke about our future basically . We met in real life I stood in his place for about 2 days and the first time we met I was nervous he was wearing a face mask because he didn’t shave his beard which was okay but I assumed he was insecure personally. The way he carried himself was showing low confidence. I went in his apartment and I spoke to him than I played with his dog and than when the night came he asked me for a kiss. I kissed on him just a tap. Than later on we decided to go to the smoke shop and got some edibles. We both got high and started kissing on each other like crazy. He had 3 full edibles while I only had 2. We were making out on the floor everywhere and gave me hickeys and everything . He was trying to pull my pants down but I said wait because I came from a long flight and I want to freshen up. I eventually got up and went to go shower and he said “okay that’s fine”. So I went to shower and after I went to his bed room than he came back into the room after talking with his big brother. I was in the room changed and ready. We were gonna go to “sleep”. I got on top of him and started making out with him. And I asked him if we can have sex. He said “Can u just suck my d***” I said “okay but why u say it like that ?” He got up from the bed and started crying badly saying”To be honest, it’s because I’m not attracted to you.” I asked him “why were u kissing on me than ?” Than he ignored that and said “does anybody else find u attractive?” He was crying really bad and I was just their like In shock. I didn’t understand one moment he was kissing on me next thing he says he not “attracted “ to me. Than he started talking saying “I’m not in a good mental state ,You are a really good person.” “Im crying because u don’t deserve this .” He said that because he was getting evicted and had no food so I lend money to him and basically fed him, when he had nothing. So than I just said “okay if that’s how u feel I respect that” I layed down the other way kinda heart broken. Than he kept asking me if I was okay every 5 seconds. “are u okay?” I kept saying “yes I’m okay “ than it continued. He kept going on for about 2 hours of him asking me that. He eventually fell asleep while I went on his carpet floor and cried in silence. He didn’t see me I was next to the frame. I was ranting to my friends and they recommended me to get out of their . I had a flight 1 day later after that night and I was sooo angry I felt violated. I eventually bought a train ticket back home. When he woke up I had all my stuff packed.I left the house and he followed me . Once I closed the door he didn’t chase . I left crying badly .I stood in the lobby waiting for my Uber and I was crying badly.I texted him “this the last time I’ll ever speak to you again “ than he felt bad. I went to the train station. 49 min Uber and it was expensive. He kept calling when I was at the train station. I eventually picked up because I was nervous to go back home in a train .He said he would talk to me when I go back their. I did go back and spoke to him he explained to me that he was high and saw my face moving. He eventually compliments me and says sorry. Than he kept talking from their … I didn’t sleep at all that night before so I told him I was tired and I need to rest and so than we did it was so nice.I was little spoon but than I woke up and he was fingering me,I tried kissing him but for some reason he wasn’t kissing me and asked if I wanted to do it still ? We did it but it wasn’t the best honestly. I noticed as we were doing it he was smiling and kissing on me. He looked as he was enjoying it because I opened my eyes mid way.this why I find this confusing. Even after we did it he said he still wasn’t ready for a relationship. The same time we did it I had to leave back home in about 1 hour . So I refreshed and long story short we went to 7/11 and bought pizza and hot dogs before I left than we sat down and ate he was acting shy idk what it was . He was laughing a lot tho . When I left we hugged . Pt2 next .
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2023.06.01 13:45 Specialist-Fox9531 So we met on a game …
So we met on a Mmo game… (we gonna call him T)but we eventually started playing more and talking more in game. Than eventually gave each others Kik accounts and I started to become his best friend. We became best friends. We were ever since I was 12 years old now I am 20 about to hit 21.. We had many moments as we flirted and complimented each other and eventually started admitting our feelings to each other when I was about 19 years old. I had to admit it first in order for him to come out and say it. I met him in real life. We were flirting and talking about our futures together the whole time before I met him in real life and we were really close friends. He was my childhood bestfriend. Even if we are not talking right now I admit he was the best thing and to be honest , my first love. We spoke before we met and admitted each others feelings towards each other. We started talking about how we gonna have kids and how crazy and funny they’ll be. Than it got sexual. It went all over the place. We spoke about our future basically . We met in real life I stood in his place for about 2 days and the first time we met I was nervous he was wearing a face mask because he didn’t shave his beard which was okay but I assumed he was insecure personally. The way he carried himself was showing low confidence. I went in his apartment and I spoke to him than I played with his dog and than when the night came he asked me for a kiss. I kissed on him just a tap. Than later on we decided to go to the smoke shop and got some edibles. We both got high and started kissing on each other like crazy. He had 3 full edibles while I only had 2. We were making out on the floor everywhere and gave me hickeys and everything . He was trying to pull my pants down but I said wait because I came from a long flight and I want to freshen up. I eventually got up and went to go shower and he said “okay that’s fine”. So I went to shower and after I went to his bed room than he came back into the room after talking with his big brother. I was in the room changed and ready. We were gonna go to “sleep”. I got on top of him and started making out with him. And I asked him if we can have sex. He said “Can u just suck my d***” I said “okay but why u say it like that ?” He got up from the bed and started crying badly saying”To be honest, it’s because I’m not attracted to you.” I asked him “why were u kissing on me than ?” Than he ignored that and said “does anybody else find u attractive?” He was crying really bad and I was just their like In shock. I didn’t understand one moment he was kissing on me next thing he says he not “attracted “ to me. Than he started talking saying “I’m not in a good mental state ,You are a really good person.” “Im crying because u don’t deserve this .” He said that because he was getting evicted and had no food so I lend money to him and basically fed him, when he had nothing. So than I just said “okay if that’s how u feel I respect that” I layed down the other way kinda heart broken. Than he kept asking me if I was okay every 5 seconds. “are u okay?” I kept saying “yes I’m okay “ than it continued. He kept going on for about 2 hours of him asking me that. He eventually fell asleep while I went on his carpet floor and cried in silence. He didn’t see me I was next to the frame. I was ranting to my friends and they recommended me to get out of their . I had a flight 1 day later after that night and I was sooo angry I felt violated. I eventually bought a train ticket back home. When he woke up I had all my stuff packed.I left the house and he followed me . Once I closed the door he didn’t chase . I left crying badly .I stood in the lobby waiting for my Uber and I was crying badly.I texted him “this the last time I’ll ever speak to you again “ than he felt bad. I went to the train station. 49 min Uber and it was expensive. He kept calling when I was at the train station. I eventually picked up because I was nervous to go back home in a train .He said he would talk to me when I go back their. I did go back and spoke to him he explained to me that he was high and saw my face moving. He eventually compliments me and says sorry. Than he kept talking from their … I didn’t sleep at all that night before so I told him I was tired and I need to rest and so than we did it was so nice.I was little spoon but than I woke up and he was fingering me,I tried kissing him but for some reason he wasn’t kissing me and asked if I wanted to do it still ? We did it but it wasn’t the best honestly. I noticed as we were doing it he was smiling and kissing on me. He looked as he was enjoying it because I opened my eyes mid way.this why I find this confusing. Even after we did it he said he still wasn’t ready for a relationship. The same time we did it I had to leave back home in about 1 hour . So I refreshed and long story short we went to 7/11 and bought pizza and hot dogs before I left than we sat down and ate he was acting shy idk what it was . He was laughing a lot tho . When I left we hugged . Pt2 next .
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2023.06.01 13:44 Specialist-Fox9531 So we met on a game …
So we met on a Mmo game… (we gonna call him T)but we eventually started playing more and talking more in game. Than eventually gave each others Kik accounts and I started to become his best friend. We became best friends. We were ever since I was 12 years old now I am 20 about to hit 21.. We had many moments as we flirted and complimented each other and eventually started admitting our feelings to each other when I was about 19 years old. I had to admit it first in order for him to come out and say it. I met him in real life. We were flirting and talking about our futures together the whole time before I met him in real life and we were really close friends. He was my childhood bestfriend. Even if we are not talking right now I admit he was the best thing and to be honest , my first love. We spoke before we met and admitted each others feelings towards each other. We started talking about how we gonna have kids and how crazy and funny they’ll be. Than it got sexual. It went all over the place. We spoke about our future basically . We met in real life I stood in his place for about 2 days and the first time we met I was nervous he was wearing a face mask because he didn’t shave his beard which was okay but I assumed he was insecure personally. The way he carried himself was showing low confidence. I went in his apartment and I spoke to him than I played with his dog and than when the night came he asked me for a kiss. I kissed on him just a tap. Than later on we decided to go to the smoke shop and got some edibles. We both got high and started kissing on each other like crazy. He had 3 full edibles while I only had 2. We were making out on the floor everywhere and gave me hickeys and everything . He was trying to pull my pants down but I said wait because I came from a long flight and I want to freshen up. I eventually got up and went to go shower and he said “okay that’s fine”. So I went to shower and after I went to his bed room than he came back into the room after talking with his big brother. I was in the room changed and ready. We were gonna go to “sleep”. I got on top of him and started making out with him. And I asked him if we can have sex. He said “Can u just suck my d***” I said “okay but why u say it like that ?” He got up from the bed and started crying badly saying”To be honest, it’s because I’m not attracted to you.” I asked him “why were u kissing on me than ?” Than he ignored that and said “does anybody else find u attractive?” He was crying really bad and I was just their like In shock. I didn’t understand one moment he was kissing on me next thing he says he not “attracted “ to me. Than he started talking saying “I’m not in a good mental state ,You are a really good person.” “Im crying because u don’t deserve this .” He said that because he was getting evicted and had no food so I lend money to him and basically fed him, when he had nothing. So than I just said “okay if that’s how u feel I respect that” I layed down the other way kinda heart broken. Than he kept asking me if I was okay every 5 seconds. “are u okay?” I kept saying “yes I’m okay “ than it continued. He kept going on for about 2 hours of him asking me that. He eventually fell asleep while I went on his carpet floor and cried in silence. He didn’t see me I was next to the frame. I was ranting to my friends and they recommended me to get out of their . I had a flight 1 day later after that night and I was sooo angry I felt violated. I eventually bought a train ticket back home. When he woke up I had all my stuff packed.I left the house and he followed me . Once I closed the door he didn’t chase . I left crying badly .I stood in the lobby waiting for my Uber and I was crying badly.I texted him “this the last time I’ll ever speak to you again “ than he felt bad. I went to the train station. 49 min Uber and it was expensive. He kept calling when I was at the train station. I eventually picked up because I was nervous to go back home in a train .He said he would talk to me when I go back their. I did go back and spoke to him he explained to me that he was high and saw my face moving. He eventually compliments me and says sorry. Than he kept talking from their … I didn’t sleep at all that night before so I told him I was tired and I need to rest and so than we did it was so nice.I was little spoon but than I woke up and he was fingering me,I tried kissing him but for some reason he wasn’t kissing me and asked if I wanted to do it still ? We did it but it wasn’t the best honestly. I noticed as we were doing it he was smiling and kissing on me. He looked as he was enjoying it because I opened my eyes mid way.this why I find this confusing. Even after we did it he said he still wasn’t ready for a relationship. The same time we did it I had to leave back home in about 1 hour . So I refreshed and long story short we went to 7/11 and bought pizza and hot dogs before I left than we sat down and ate he was acting shy idk what it was . He was laughing a lot tho . When I left we hugged . Pt2 next .
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2023.06.01 13:41 Mysterious-Cold8534 Microdosing where to buy?
Recently I had a mushroom chocolate bar and I thought it was great but I can’t depend on the guy who got it for me to get it again for me. I already asked twice and he blew me off basically. I tried ordering capsules from a Facebook group but I don’t feel any kind of change with them. I live in NY so I was just wondering who I can trust to buy it from. The people in that facebook group seem to like what they’re getting but I tried for over a week and felt not. I do know that it works because the chocolate bar did the trick bar made me feel peaceful and I had a few very productive days. It was called the magic mushroom bat, but I can’t find it anywhere!
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2023.06.01 13:25 Golden_Bell22 Looking for Career Advice/Tips/Mentorship
TLDR: I would love and appreciate any advice :)
Hello :) I am a recent graduate with a B.S. in Biology and I am currently job hunting. I decided my junior year that I didn't want to go into academia/research and I also decided a long time ago that I was not doing any pre-health profession (chemistry kicked my butt and I wanted to cry every day). I have spent the last couple months trying to figure out what to do and I feel lost overall especially given the number of avenues one could go down. I personally believe that you fully rule out something until you try it. I have gone down numerous rabbit holes trying to figure out my next steps.
Through the adventure that was my career exploration I have ruled out a few things. I have been using linked in as a way to reach out and set up informational interviews. If any of you are willing please feel free to PM me. My school's network isn't that strong because most biology, bcmb or chemistry students go into PhD/graduate programs or medical School. We don't have STEM recruiters visit our campus. I decided not to apply to graduate school because there wasn't anything I was passionate about and I didn't want to have more student debt until I knew what I wanted to study. Within my personal network no one is within the same industry, it is all finance or social work.
I completely understand that your first job is just a stepping stone to where you want to be.
The reason I thought of biotech was because I still wanted to be able to use my science degree.
What I want from my first job: The main things I am looking is mentorship and the potential for future growth (acquiring skills and experience needed for future roles). Plan: stay for 2 - 3 years.
Teamwork and collaboration is also really important/valuable to me. It's important for people to have respect for others and be mindful. I want to be around people who understand that their actions impact everyone. If they see a tasks that needs to be done, they do it instead of saying that it isn't their problem.
Something that offers variety and challenges me.
I am someone who requires structure, good management, and going into a physical office/seeing people face-to-face.
Short term (2 - 5 years from now): Find an area I am passionate about and go to graduate school. Acquire the required experience for supervisory roles such as project or product management. Learn about the business side of the industry. Learn relevant data analytics/computer skills. Pay off current student debt.
Work at a large company that has branches abroad and transfer for a year or two.
Long term career goals: Find strong mentors. End up in a management/leadership position of some kind. Be surrounded by ambitious individuals / high achievers. This is because I believe you are who you surround yourself with and having ambitious friends push you to step out of your comfort zone and be the best you, you can be. Build a strong and reliable network.
Make enough money to afford family vacations abroad and be able to support parents after retirement.
Qualifications:
Related Experience: ~2 years in undergraduate research (wet) lab: cell culture, PCR, DNA purification, protein stains and westerns. However, I did not actually analyze the data, it was handed off to someone else in the lab. A summer REU in the Public Health realm.
Extra Curriculars: Held several club leadership positions, basic experience with event planning, worked student office jobs throughout college, was an Residential Assistant, studied abroad for a semester.
Careers I don't feel would be the best fit:
Sales: meeting monthly quotas would give me way too much stress and I hate the idea of cold calling with the purpose of selling a product
Working in a lab: the thought of messing up weeks and months of data would give me too much anxiety. I was also a super slow lab worker.
RA: Not too keen given the jobs is basically reading a ton of research papers which the thought of gives me existential dread.
Teaching: Not for me. I believe it takes a certain individual to be a good teacher and communicator. I am also super awkward around children/adolescences. My biggest fear is that I would teach them the wrong thing and mess up their fundamental understanding or not be engaging enough.
CDC positions: Of the ones I have seen, they all seem to be about HIV. I took a microbiology and immunology class and the topic didn't intrigue me.
Thank you for reading through my super long posts: I thought providing detail would give more specific/targeted advice.
Questions:
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Hello :) I am a recent graduate with a B.S. in Biology and I am currently job hunting. I decided my junior year that I didn't want to go into academia/research and I also decided a long time ago that I was not doing any pre-health profession (chemistry kicked my butt and I wanted to cry every day). I have spent the last couple months trying to figure out what to do and I feel lost overall especially given the number of avenues one could go down. I personally believe that you fully rule out something until you try it. I have gone down numerous rabbit holes trying to figure out my next steps.
Through the adventure that was my career exploration I have ruled out a few things. I have been using linked in as a way to reach out and set up informational interviews. If any of you are willing please feel free to PM me. My school's network isn't that strong because most biology, bcmb or chemistry students go into PhD/graduate programs or medical School. We don't have STEM recruiters visit our campus. I decided not to apply to graduate school because there wasn't anything I was passionate about and I didn't want to have more student debt until I knew what I wanted to study. Within my personal network no one is within the same industry, it is all finance or social work.
I completely understand that your first job is just a stepping stone to where you want to be.
The reason I thought of biotech was because I still wanted to be able to use my science degree.
What I want from my first job: The main things I am looking is mentorship and the potential for future growth (acquiring skills and experience needed for future roles). Plan: stay for 2 - 3 years.
Teamwork and collaboration is also really important/valuable to me. It's important for people to have respect for others and be mindful. I want to be around people who understand that their actions impact everyone. If they see a tasks that needs to be done, they do it instead of saying that it isn't their problem.
Something that offers variety and challenges me.
I am someone who requires structure, good management, and going into a physical office/seeing people face-to-face.
Short term (2 - 5 years from now): Find an area I am passionate about and go to graduate school. Acquire the required experience for supervisory roles such as project or product management. Learn about the business side of the industry. Learn relevant data analytics/computer skills. Pay off current student debt.
Work at a large company that has branches abroad and transfer for a year or two.
Long term career goals: Find strong mentors. End up in a management/leadership position of some kind. Be surrounded by ambitious individuals / high achievers. This is because I believe you are who you surround yourself with and having ambitious friends push you to step out of your comfort zone and be the best you, you can be. Build a strong and reliable network.
Make enough money to afford family vacations abroad and be able to support parents after retirement.
Qualifications:
Related Experience: ~2 years in undergraduate research (wet) lab: cell culture, PCR, DNA purification, protein stains and westerns. However, I did not actually analyze the data, it was handed off to someone else in the lab. A summer REU in the Public Health realm.
Extra Curriculars: Held several club leadership positions, basic experience with event planning, worked student office jobs throughout college, was an Residential Assistant, studied abroad for a semester.
Careers I don't feel would be the best fit:
Sales: meeting monthly quotas would give me way too much stress and I hate the idea of cold calling with the purpose of selling a product
Working in a lab: the thought of messing up weeks and months of data would give me too much anxiety. I was also a super slow lab worker.
RA: Not too keen given the jobs is basically reading a ton of research papers which the thought of gives me existential dread.
Teaching: Not for me. I believe it takes a certain individual to be a good teacher and communicator. I am also super awkward around children/adolescences. My biggest fear is that I would teach them the wrong thing and mess up their fundamental understanding or not be engaging enough.
CDC positions: Of the ones I have seen, they all seem to be about HIV. I took a microbiology and immunology class and the topic didn't intrigue me.
Thank you for reading through my super long posts: I thought providing detail would give more specific/targeted advice.
Questions:
- Suggestions for biotech companies with a good reputation, upward mobility and mentorship.
- How do I figure out if what a company is offering is a good salary?
- Once I get an offer, how do I leverage my experience so I don't get lowballed? I feel like I don't have anything to offer. Additionally, most research/coordinator positions I have seen only pay $30,000 - $40,000 which where I live is not livable. (I want to be able to save/start paying off my student debt and not live pay check to pay check)
- Should I moving to Boston given most threads I have read say that's where the jobs are. I come from a small rural town so job opportunities are super limited. I will need to relocate either way. I also thought of Philadelphia because I heard it had good public transit.
- How do you find good mentors, especially when you are unsure of what you want to do next?
- How do you find local networking events post college?
- Career pivots are also welcomed suggestions
- If there is a different thread/community to ask this in please let me know.
2023.06.01 13:24 Comfortable-Grape170 United cancelled flight; no seats anymore?
Howdy everyone. I got word this morning that my flight that was supposed to take off 10 minutes ago is now cancelled. Thankfully they told us before we left for the airport, but sucks anyways. Suuuuper frustrating because this flight is for a move and not for leisure. My family is currently staying in our empty house in Ireland where we threw all of our food away last night since we were leaving permanently today. To add another layer of bs, we shipped our 2 dogs out yesterday and were supposed to be landing at the same time in Dulles later today. But now, the dogs will land there, and we won't be there. (Dogs were on KLM btw)
Now, United rebooked us on another flight tomorrow on Aer Lingus which is all fine and dandy, but when digging deeper, I saw that we have no seat assignment. From what I understand, that might be because the flight is overbooked?? I don't know. Another thing was that with United, were were getting 3 free checked bags per person (3 people total), but now on Aer Lingus we're only getting 1 per person. AGAIN super annoying and I don't know what to do about it. In my experience Aer Lingus has been less than helpful so I can imagine it will be like pulling teeth dealing with them trying to figure it out. Other side note: the flight is 8hrs 15mins and Aer Lingus says they're not serving any meals. What's that all about?
I just came on here to seek some insight from any of you about what the "no seat assignment" thing means and what we could do with our bags that wouldn't resort to us paying an additional $600 in bag fees that were supposed to be covered on our cancelled flight. We also had economy plus on the cancelled flight. Do you think we'll get refunded for that or have our seats matched? This is definitely all stuff I could hash out with a representative (or two since I am now dealing with 2 airlines for one trip), but I figured this would be more efficient and a little more straightforward than the circus that is flight reservations.
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Now, United rebooked us on another flight tomorrow on Aer Lingus which is all fine and dandy, but when digging deeper, I saw that we have no seat assignment. From what I understand, that might be because the flight is overbooked?? I don't know. Another thing was that with United, were were getting 3 free checked bags per person (3 people total), but now on Aer Lingus we're only getting 1 per person. AGAIN super annoying and I don't know what to do about it. In my experience Aer Lingus has been less than helpful so I can imagine it will be like pulling teeth dealing with them trying to figure it out. Other side note: the flight is 8hrs 15mins and Aer Lingus says they're not serving any meals. What's that all about?
I just came on here to seek some insight from any of you about what the "no seat assignment" thing means and what we could do with our bags that wouldn't resort to us paying an additional $600 in bag fees that were supposed to be covered on our cancelled flight. We also had economy plus on the cancelled flight. Do you think we'll get refunded for that or have our seats matched? This is definitely all stuff I could hash out with a representative (or two since I am now dealing with 2 airlines for one trip), but I figured this would be more efficient and a little more straightforward than the circus that is flight reservations.
2023.06.01 13:23 anon27821 Find Amanda W. from buffalo ny socials, screenshot and send to me, make me feargasm, dm me or tele jtodd432
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2023.06.01 13:22 vinit_1985 what can i do in this situation
I have booked indigo flight from ahmedabad to banglore at 3698rs from paytm on 15may for 4th august.For some reason I had to cancelled the flight I yesterday cancelled it.Indigo charged 3000rs and payment charge 500rs so i get only 100rs refund on 3696rs ticket.on there website and app they mention the charges.legally can i take any action against them ???become as a middle class people this amount is very big for me.
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2023.06.01 13:22 NYCindahous Day 1 Post-Op
So yesterday I had my surgery at Dr. Taj office in D.C. I couldn't be happier with his team . They made me completely comfortable, and the only minor thing is I had to wait about 3 hours until my surgery, since he had someone ahead of me that took him longer than he expected. At that point, I was already fasting for 18 hours, and it was the only thing that bothered me. I was super hungry . Sitting in the clinic and waiting for hours made me anxious and disturbed. 2hours since I got there, they decided to put the IV in me. Then, 1h later, I entered the surgery roomand I didn't even count to 5. I was already knocked out .. I love it!
Got up a few hours later. Bit uncomfortable feeling and pain. But they gave me pain killers. This morning, I think I had minor erraction, and it was hard for me to urinate. But I succeeded eventually. Slowly.
This morning, I am going back to the office to change the bandage wrap around my penis. Then, in 3 days, I will remove the drain and will be clear to go back home to NY. I decided to do the surgery at Taj's office since I chatted with several guys who came from NY for that. And I didn't do it in NY. In my View Dr. Taj is the most experienced (following social media, following blogs, reviews, and feedbacks .
I will keep updating you guys. I will upload photos, but not yet. I need the wrap to go away first.
For those who want to know. I was told that he was able to insert the Penuma Plus XL.
Good luck to everybody!
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Got up a few hours later. Bit uncomfortable feeling and pain. But they gave me pain killers. This morning, I think I had minor erraction, and it was hard for me to urinate. But I succeeded eventually. Slowly.
This morning, I am going back to the office to change the bandage wrap around my penis. Then, in 3 days, I will remove the drain and will be clear to go back home to NY. I decided to do the surgery at Taj's office since I chatted with several guys who came from NY for that. And I didn't do it in NY. In my View Dr. Taj is the most experienced (following social media, following blogs, reviews, and feedbacks .
I will keep updating you guys. I will upload photos, but not yet. I need the wrap to go away first.
For those who want to know. I was told that he was able to insert the Penuma Plus XL.
Good luck to everybody!
2023.06.01 13:19 Bananacream95 Is it best to save Athens for the end of my trip so i'm near the Airport?
I arrive and depart from athens and am wondering if in the interest of time and efficiency if i should stay in athens last. my flight back from athens is 10am So i'll have to stay a night in athens before my flight anyways. I'll be in greece for 2 weeks.
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2023.06.01 13:17 mangoflavouredpanda The same issues over and over again
I've (42f) been with this man(42m) for three and a half years. His kids live interstate and he's an academic who is from Europe and goes to conferences around the world, probably three times a year for two to three weeks each. He goes away every two weeks for almost a week to see his kids, and on school holidays. When he goes overseas he sees his kids interstate before and after for a few days to a week.
Over time I guess I've grown to feel just incredibly sad. He doesn't usually tell me the truth about how long he'll be gone for - he'll tell me the best case scenario for me l, but it always ends up the best case for him (longer time with his kids). And he doesn't tell me when it changes. So this time it was that he left Tuesday two weeks ago and said he'd be back today, but now he's staying til next Tues and he only told me because I just asked him.
I am trying to gear up to leave him but it's so hard. When he's here he's my support system. I have really low self esteem and mental issues and... I know it's going to be hard. I am so sick of this situation and I've tried so many times to bring these issues up - please don't lie about how long you'll be away, please tell me when your plans change, etc. This never changes. He just gets indignant that I'm "doing this again. I'm so sick of it." I tell him again and again how much it upsets me, how cruel it is to give me unrealistic expectations, etc. He just claims he does tell me blah blah blah. And he just did it again. "It'll be Sunday if I find a flight." Again giving me a wrong expectation so he can turn around when I ask on Sunday and he'll say "I couldn't find a flight on Sunday now it's Tuesday."
I know people tell me just end it. Just end it. How? I feel like I have no one. He's shit and he's only here half the time but it's better than nothing.
But I don't know if I could be any less happy... I'm ok when he's here but not when he's not. Maybe it's better to be really miserable and break up and then be neutral/single... I just don't think I'm going to find anyone else.
I really think I need moral support maybe... It's just really difficult. So it's relationship advice for the relationship between me and myself, I guess. How do I manage to cross the line? Please be kind... I am really very upset. I'd you feel the need to attack me maybe just do it to yourself as I just want support right now.
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Over time I guess I've grown to feel just incredibly sad. He doesn't usually tell me the truth about how long he'll be gone for - he'll tell me the best case scenario for me l, but it always ends up the best case for him (longer time with his kids). And he doesn't tell me when it changes. So this time it was that he left Tuesday two weeks ago and said he'd be back today, but now he's staying til next Tues and he only told me because I just asked him.
I am trying to gear up to leave him but it's so hard. When he's here he's my support system. I have really low self esteem and mental issues and... I know it's going to be hard. I am so sick of this situation and I've tried so many times to bring these issues up - please don't lie about how long you'll be away, please tell me when your plans change, etc. This never changes. He just gets indignant that I'm "doing this again. I'm so sick of it." I tell him again and again how much it upsets me, how cruel it is to give me unrealistic expectations, etc. He just claims he does tell me blah blah blah. And he just did it again. "It'll be Sunday if I find a flight." Again giving me a wrong expectation so he can turn around when I ask on Sunday and he'll say "I couldn't find a flight on Sunday now it's Tuesday."
I know people tell me just end it. Just end it. How? I feel like I have no one. He's shit and he's only here half the time but it's better than nothing.
But I don't know if I could be any less happy... I'm ok when he's here but not when he's not. Maybe it's better to be really miserable and break up and then be neutral/single... I just don't think I'm going to find anyone else.
I really think I need moral support maybe... It's just really difficult. So it's relationship advice for the relationship between me and myself, I guess. How do I manage to cross the line? Please be kind... I am really very upset. I'd you feel the need to attack me maybe just do it to yourself as I just want support right now.
2023.06.01 13:12 Adammc604 I was ambushed by myself?
 | I was traveling back to my capital from a feast and was ambushed by myself? 😂 submitted by Adammc604 to CrusaderKings [link] [comments] |
2023.06.01 13:08 huaemei I don't know if I can do this.
I just came home from my 2nd therapy appointment with a new therapist. I'll be honest with you, I'm not doing well right now.
The Fight/Flight mode I arrived here with is screaming at me "DO NOT GO BACK!" - and I'm not entirely sure why.
It's like... I presented an idea that I was working on, and he gave me things to consider that logically make a lot of sense. At the same time my black/white thinking says "Okay, if he disagrees with my plan, then I shouldn't do it." - and I haven't even begun considering if his objection is applicable for my case. I'm immediately willing to drop it because "a person of authority" (?) is saying that maybe it's not the right way. I feel like a child again. Helpless, confused, with no idea what to do. With no help. It's precisely what I felt my entire childhood and I just want to flee, like I finally managed to when I was 19.
So, if a single reasonable objection makes me lose confidence in an idea I've been building in my head for months, how the fuck am I supposed to do anything? I've done EVERYTHING without a therapist for the last 10 years, and I have completely rebuilt myself in the process. Well, not completely apparently -.-
Right now I feel like never going back. While at the same time thinking that I may be avoiding something important here - what if I can find something great by sticking with it?
And my gut tells me that none of this matters before I start looking at it from all sides to see the grey tones.
But how am I supposed to shut off this feeling? I have an overwhelming feeling that I can't do this. That I can't take this anymore. I just want this to end.
...wait, is this an emotional flashback? Let's check out Pete Walker's steps for managing emotional flashbacks...
...yup.
...
I believe I'm desperate for validation. And I'm not sure if this therapist is able to give me that. And I'm not sure if he is even supposed to.
I was looking for a personal connection that he is not willing to give me. Professional distance apparently requires me to not know anything about him.
He spoke about a lack of trust when I asked about his background.
Isn't trust built? Is trust supposed to be right there from the start? I don't believe that's how humans work.
I'm beating myself up right now because I haven't even checked out another therapist yet. I had a good feeling after the first session, but I'm not sure anymore.
This is all messed up. I believe he was correct in his assumption that I have attachment issues.
He said I am free in my dealing with him. He has no expectation of me showing up next week or whatever. I don't feel free. It looks like after just 2 sessions I already consider him an authority even though he doesn't even have a full picture of my situation yet.
Maybe I shouldn't share plans without a full picture.
God, this is hard. I wish this was all optional. I wish my quality of life didn't depend on how I deal with my fucking childhood trauma. Fuck this shit so much.
Thank you for listening. This was fresh. I'll be fine.
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The Fight/Flight mode I arrived here with is screaming at me "DO NOT GO BACK!" - and I'm not entirely sure why.
It's like... I presented an idea that I was working on, and he gave me things to consider that logically make a lot of sense. At the same time my black/white thinking says "Okay, if he disagrees with my plan, then I shouldn't do it." - and I haven't even begun considering if his objection is applicable for my case. I'm immediately willing to drop it because "a person of authority" (?) is saying that maybe it's not the right way. I feel like a child again. Helpless, confused, with no idea what to do. With no help. It's precisely what I felt my entire childhood and I just want to flee, like I finally managed to when I was 19.
So, if a single reasonable objection makes me lose confidence in an idea I've been building in my head for months, how the fuck am I supposed to do anything? I've done EVERYTHING without a therapist for the last 10 years, and I have completely rebuilt myself in the process. Well, not completely apparently -.-
Right now I feel like never going back. While at the same time thinking that I may be avoiding something important here - what if I can find something great by sticking with it?
And my gut tells me that none of this matters before I start looking at it from all sides to see the grey tones.
But how am I supposed to shut off this feeling? I have an overwhelming feeling that I can't do this. That I can't take this anymore. I just want this to end.
...wait, is this an emotional flashback? Let's check out Pete Walker's steps for managing emotional flashbacks...
...yup.
...
I believe I'm desperate for validation. And I'm not sure if this therapist is able to give me that. And I'm not sure if he is even supposed to.
I was looking for a personal connection that he is not willing to give me. Professional distance apparently requires me to not know anything about him.
He spoke about a lack of trust when I asked about his background.
Isn't trust built? Is trust supposed to be right there from the start? I don't believe that's how humans work.
I'm beating myself up right now because I haven't even checked out another therapist yet. I had a good feeling after the first session, but I'm not sure anymore.
This is all messed up. I believe he was correct in his assumption that I have attachment issues.
He said I am free in my dealing with him. He has no expectation of me showing up next week or whatever. I don't feel free. It looks like after just 2 sessions I already consider him an authority even though he doesn't even have a full picture of my situation yet.
Maybe I shouldn't share plans without a full picture.
God, this is hard. I wish this was all optional. I wish my quality of life didn't depend on how I deal with my fucking childhood trauma. Fuck this shit so much.
Thank you for listening. This was fresh. I'll be fine.
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2023.06.01 13:07 KiwiPizza453 Idk what to do
I’m looking for a HoTaS upgrade from my t flight full kit x. I used to play with it on my Xbox 1 and have recently changed to PC. I’ve played War Thunder for a while, and want to try DCS, but I need an upgrade. I’m not too concerned about budget, as long as it’s around £300 - £400.
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2023.06.01 13:06 jlw200200 Advice for flying to/from Naples, Italy
Hello everyone! I wanted to come on here and just give some friendly advice about traveling to and from Italy. If you are flying out of Naples I would suggest changing that. It’s not a reliable airport and the flights continuously get cancelled. I had two flights cancelled within 24 hours and from what I have heard that is not uncommon. My suggestion would be to make sure at the end of your trip you are either flying out of Rome or Milan. It is a pain to be down in Amalfi and get all the way back up to those cities, but it is worth it for more reliable travel. No hate to the Naples airport but I just did not have a great experience and many fellow travelers have told me similar stories to mine.
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2023.06.01 13:06 GingeRae0 Processing LiDAR point clouds
What is the best way to process LiDAR point clouds? Specific situation is we have points from a drone flight over open prairie and heavily treed areas. The goal is to detect mounds which may be very subtle. The entire site is sloped so organizing by overall elevation wouldn’t work. Is there a specific tool or software that can enhance relative high points while keeping the data in point cloud form? Something like a hillshade maybe?
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2023.06.01 13:02 KarmasKunt WTF!? DeSantis Declares He's Running For President Just To ‘Destroy Leftism’
 | Is it just me or have others noticed a lack of focus on REAL ISSUES effecting Floridians these days? submitted by KarmasKunt to u/KarmasKunt [link] [comments] Home owner insurance - insurance companies have been fleeing FL as a result of the consistently unaddressed climate change. This has forced many Floridians onto the states insurance (Citizens). Premiums for those with regular coverage have skyrocketed & state logistics was passed to raise the cost of Citizens in an effort to get people off of it without giving them an alternative. Just yesterday we were informed that our homeowner insurance will once again, go up. Premiums for some are expected to increase an additional 40%. https://youtu.be/XwIzD-yUKVA Fraud - FL is rated the WORST state for fraud. Just last year a billion dollar medical fraud was uncovered. You remember those commercials telling you that you could get medical supplies for free? I remember getting called with offers for back braces & more. They claimed they were free, but they'd charge Medicare for products people didn'tneed or want. Look up Rick Scott Medicare fraud. This year 25 people were arrested for a scam that was passing out medical degrees like candy on Halloween. If you want to know how DeSantis is tackling this you need look no further than recent legislation passed removing consumers' right to sue insurance companies after being wrongfully denied for a legitimate claim. https://youtu.be/1wlE86u4tMY Taxes - DeSantis raised taxes for consumers who purchase products online. This helps local business, but harms low income families who seek out products in bulk online in effort to save money. https://youtu.be/6qjz7b9IeDM After DeSantis sent migrants awaiting citizenship to Martha's Vineyard in two flights we found out the costs ($12 million) came from tax payers. The Republican state legislature then allocated more tax payer money ($10 million) for future flights. None of these actions have helped Floridians, in fact they have harmed our states economy. Who needs city & state taxes with a government like ours? https://youtu.be/M1tIeiWCJZY Housing costs - Much like most of America, Florida is in the midst of a housing crisis. Some renters have shown their rent being raised $500/ month more than once in the past year. Cities in Florida without laws on rent control are the worst, of course. How is DeSantis addressing this? NOTHING. In fact, there is a direct line between legislation & harm. SB 620 removes a tenants rights to sue. It's hurricane season & many Floridians are still displaced from the last hurricane. The recent anti-migrant law passed by DeSantis has put recovery to a stand still. SB 102 has done nothing but help landlords while inserting more government where Floridians should have rights instead. https://youtu.be/_2wnpLTe6G8 Not just renter, but homeowners suffer in Florida as well. - https://youtu.be/be5rCIPXF7U A bunch of criminals were brought to FL & DeSantis used tax payer dollars to provide them with $5k - $6k bonuses to police citizens of Florida. Including murderers & kidnappers. https://www.dailydot.com/debug/florida-police-recruitment-bonus-desantis/ Low/Stagnant Wages DeSantis & other Republicans are trying to prevent increases in wages beyong the current $10/hr. On top of this, FL is the worst state for workers rights. "Right 2 Work" laws and other anti-worker union legislation passed by FL conservatives along with anti-protestor laws have truly harmed the working class in Florida. https://youtu.be/WSvN_8DtM1Y Union Busting/Anti-worker Union Laws - Florida has consistently used state power to take away workers' right while giving corporations in the state rim jobs. https://youtu.be/ciEjTxWb0L4 Health Insurance isn't Affordable - with residents unable to earn a livable wage & the health industry being so comodified we actively kill people simply for being un/under insured. My only solution to this would be M4A, especially since the health industry has gotten pretty brutal. People are suffering on their death bead merely for being poor as wealthier Floridians are given priority. Corporations have influenced the majority of Florida's inhumane policies. Many residents work till death. It's the out of state Floridians who moved here that are afforded retirement and thus, actual care. One of the horror stories I heard recently is how someone was denied testing and scans looking for cancer for a year. The denial came from Medicare Part D you know the corporate one. She's dead now after suffering and being treated like a nuisance in the emergency room. There are multiple class action lawsuits out now for similar reasons. In Florida specifically religion has taken over emergency rooms and Healthcare in places like Ocala. Seventh-Day Adventists own Advent health who are one of many corporations that profit from working class struggles and suffering. The tax incentives and subsidies they rake in are insane compared to the lack of care many Floridians are given. Kidney dialysis corporations like DaVita treat patients like drive-thru customers. Let's not forget when DeSantis literally sold covid vaccines to wealthy people, including those from other countries - before they were made access to Floridians. https://youtu.be/TrnnRAQgZg8 - This was from the Rick Scott Governorship, but no different than the DeSantis government right now. Price Gouging - companies getting away with bleeding consumers dry as they continue refuse to raise wages along with inflation. At the same time employers continue to complain about the problems they're having with getting people to work for them. Rather than attacking citizens we need to look at the reason why people don't want to work for less than livable wages. It's kind of obvious what the problem is. Our country is turning into an Oligarchy & Florida has done nothing to soften the blows for it's working class families. In fact, Florida is being managed like an authoritarian state of vengeance who continues to exploit laborers while catering to wealthier donors. DeSantis specifically, is a Wall Street stooge. https://youtu.be/Ev85uVBT2JI Lastly, DeSantis' claim the Florida is the #1 state on education isn't just a lie, it's insane. Here's a link to an opinion piece (with resources) that points out the ways they tried to imply this while ignoring facts. https://web.archive.org/web/20230209204142/https://www.tampabay.com/opinion/2023/01/05/floridas-education-system-is-vastly-underperforming-column/ I could go on and on but I have better things to do. Like... work. Oh yeah, lest we forget... https://youtu.be/92c5YkUWzEg Gotta say though, I do wonder what the left did to piss this guy off so much? 🤔 |
2023.06.01 13:00 Most_Bit_1538 HAFB single F35 scrambled @ 4:40 AM, strange
 | Anyone else hear that single random F35 scramble and take off from Hill AFB just a few minutes ago? Living near this runway, it’s very abnormal for a single aircraft to depart, solo, especially this time of day (pre-dawn). Immediately lost the transponder after takeoff. submitted by Most_Bit_1538 to ADSB [link] [comments] Abnormal because : -time of day -they rarely fly before 0600 -solo aircraft- normally fly in smaller groups of even numbers, 4 is most common -afterburners- this guy was cooking! -transponder- normally on a training mission they leave their transponders on for quite a while. Training grounds are 50-80 miles west, normally you can track them most of the way there if not the entire flight. Wonder what’s up? |
2023.06.01 12:59 anon27821 Find Amanda W. from buffalo ny socials, screenshot and send to me, make me feargasm, dm me or tele jtodd432
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